Journey to Sacred Union
By Suzanna Kennedy
When I first heard the words "Sacred Union," it resonated with me as a name for a kind of relationship that my heart yearned for, but my mind couldn’t quite describe. It’s a relationship whose blueprint must come from another universe where joy, love and freedom reign. It seems like a relationship that doesn’t exist here yet, but maybe something we could evolve to.
To me Sacred Union described coming together in pure, unconditional love, sharing deep intimacy and passion, allowing for complete freedom to be and grow and change. It’s feeling free to be Who You Really Are with no masks, illusions or projections. It’s got to be better than our contemporary institution of marriage, given the astounding divorce rate. Yet here in Kauai, we see scores of wedding and honeymoon couples beginning their union here. How many of them will achieve a Sacred Union? How many will become disillusioned?
Upon meeting, many couples describe feeling instantly comfortable. They notice a feeling of familiarity, as if they’ve known each other forever. They may explain this as being soul mates or lovers from another lifetime. Yet usually, after time, this magical feeling is replaced by "the honeymoon is over" kind of feeling. What happens?
In her book, Loving Relationships, Sondra Ray says, "In the presence of love, anything unlike love, presents itself." Here’s what happens. Just when we begin to feel safe and secure in another’s love and in the relationship, all of the unloved parts of ourselves present themselves for healing. We all have denied thoughts, beliefs, judgments and suppressed emotions lurking in the closets and under the beds of our psyche. When these disenfranchised parts feel the energy of love, they want to come out and be loved too. They want to be acknowledged,
accepted and healed by the love.
But most often when they show themselves, we are repulsed. After all, we spent a lot of emotional energy hiding from them and keeping them hidden from others. How dare they show themselves now, just when everything was going so well!
If we were conscious and aware, we’d recognize this as a wonderful opportunity to heal those denied parts of us into love and light – into wholeness. Yet most of us are not aware of this opportunity, and we banish those denied parts into deeper exile. We may break up with our partner, only to repeat the pattern again in the next relationship. Or we may stay in the relationship, closing off aspects of ourselves that we would rather not face – sacrificing deep intimacy in favor of superficial comfort and safety.
What is ironic is that those denied parts, even though hidden, are usually very instrumental in attracting our partners in the first place. It is those denied parts that provide the feeling of familiarity, because it was those parts that didn’t feel loved by our parents. And so we will attract a partner who will withhold love in the same kind of way that we perceived that our parents withheld love. Those denied parts move us to set up similar situations over and over again so that we will finally look at the denial and love it into the light.
So how do we get off this merry-go-round? How can we love ourselves into the light so that we don’t have to play this out in relationship? How can we heal our broken hearts and open to the intimacy of Sacred Union? These are questions I asked my spiritual guides. They responded to my questions in the most profound and tangible way.
Any scientist, inventor or artist will tell you that their creations were inspired from somewhere outside of their own minds. Likewise, I was divinely inspired with The Sacred Union Program. I worked with a spiritual council that transmitted the Sacred Union blueprint to me. What I share with you now is a four-step process that I have tried myself and with others. It works if you are really committed to the changes necessary. Moving through the changes and progressing levels of awareness and increasing vibration was not always comfortable. It can be graceful if you flow with the changes. Pain and discomfort come only in the areas where you are resisting letting go of that which no longer serves you.
Understand that Sacred Union is first and foremost Sacred Union within you -- all aspects of yourself, in all time, all dimensions. This includes coming into Sacred Union with our own Divinity. We must acknowledge, feel and allow our wholeness and oneness with Source. By definition every human is Divine. The human being is the Sacred Union of the individualized consciousness of All That Is and physical matter. Humans are the Sacred Union of Spirit and Earth. Yet there are varying degrees to which people are aware of their own Divine nature. And there are varying degrees to which people express their Divinity.
As our individual consciousness journeyed into the density of matter, we have felt disconnected from our spiritual source. We have fallen asleep and dreamed that we are separate from our own Divinity. The process used in the Sacred Union program is a spiritual technology that helps us to awaken and clear away the dream of separation. We rebirth ourselves into the world of form with the awakened knowing that we are Divine Beings creating Heaven on Earth.
This program is evolving and currently has four steps:
1. Sacred Union of Inner Male and Inner Female
2. Sacred Union of Ego and Spirit
3. Birthing the Divine Human
4. Sacred Union Relationships
Sacred Union of the Inner Male and Inner Female
Since the original emergence from Source, as an individualized Divine Spark, human beings have been reenacting the Illusion of Separation in all of their relationships. In one-way or another, we suffer pain in our interactions with other. Even the most loving relationships end in grief when one person dies before the other. We store the perceptions of separation in our chakra system. We store the dense energies related to pain and separation in our four-body system (physical, mental, emotional and spiritual bodies).
We continue to reenact separation, betrayal and abandonment until we break through the veil of illusion and see that there is no separation from Source.
In this first step it is necessary to call forth, love and heal all those denied aspects of ourselves related to relationship. Call forth to the surface all hidden and suppressed energies of anger, rage, resentment, hatred jealousy, envy, betrayal, separation and abandonment for release and transmutation.
Release blame (forgive) perceptions of separation from male relationships; including the male aspect of God, physical fathers, brothers, sons, husbands, lovers, your own male aspect and any other men you have ever known. In the same way, release perceptions of separation from all female relationships. Clear from this lifetime as well as from all other aspects of yourself that are experiencing life in any other time or dimension.
After clearing the perceptions and dense energies from the four-body system, we turn our attention to your own inner male and inner female. Take a look at what condition they are in. Shine the light of Source upon them so that they will heal and mature into healthy, well-balanced beings that will work together in Sacred Union within you.
Sacred Union of the Ego and Spirit
Our ego or mind-created image of ourselves has a specific job within us. Ego is associated with the mental body. Originally the ego was meant to protect our bodies as we moved through a physical experience on the Earth. The ego also protects and maintains our self-image and our belief systems. Its job is to keep everything the same. So when we try to grow and expand, especially emotionally or spiritually, the ego sees it’s job to maintain status quo and will often sabotage our efforts of self-improvement.
The ego uses energies of anger, fear, guilt, judgment and pain as strategies to protect the image of self. So in order to expand into the image of you as a Divine Human, you must engage the cooperation of the ego. In this step, acknowledge the ego for all of it’s faithful past service. Give it a promotion and new job description that is consistent with maintaining a new self image as a Divine Human. Promote the various aspects of the ego from protector status to advisor status. This actually causes ascension of the mental body, preparing the way for the Sacred Union of the various aspects of your Divinity with your physical body.
Birthing The Divine Human
Birthing the Divine Human process is in alignment with the Earth Mother as she is ascending and birthing herself into the fifth dimension. The Order of Melchizedek has gifted us with a new spiritual technology that unplugs you from a fear-based reality and plugs you into a joy-based reality. This gift greatly accelerates your personal ascension process and prepares the body for moving along with Blessed Mother Earth in her spiritual evolution into the fifth dimensional reality.
Scientists in the area of quantum physics are proposing the Holographic Universe Theory and are uncovering a staggering amount of evidence that supports this theory. But spiritual masters have been telling us for eons that our reality is all an illusion. In actuality all that you perceive as physical reality is really holographic images. The way it works is similar to a movie projector. A light source shines through the film and the projector projects an image onto the screen.
In a similar way, your individualized God consciousness (light source) is projected through your DNA (film) and the brain (movie projector) projects a holographic image that you perceive as reality. Your body is hologram. Everything in physical form is a hologram.
Disney and other studios are already producing holographic images using crystal lasers. The holographic images projected by the brain are denser than the holographic images projected by Disney, so we perceive the brain-generated holograms as more "real."
What is DNA then? It’s information, records and data. The DNA contains the blueprint for your physical body. It stores information about all of your life experiences including emotions, thoughts and thought patterns, judgments, belief systems and your self-image. Your DNA contains the records for your life’s purpose. It contains the blueprint for your Divine Body, which is what we are evolving into as a species.
Geneticists have found what they refer to as "junk DNA". This is genetic material that does not seem to be activated at the moment and they can’t figure out its purpose. But this is not junk DNA. These are strands of DNA that once hooked up and activated, can give us some abilities that would be considered very metaphysical today. These abilities may include extrasensory perception, rejuvenation, immortality, telepathy, psycho kinesis, accessing information and communication from other dimensions, teleportation, bi-location and instant manifestation.
In essence, we would have the same abilities ascribed to the gods and goddesses of ancient myth. What if these mythical figures were real beings? Perhaps they were our ancient ancestors from another place or another dimension. Maybe they had all the strands of DNA connected and ignited and which made them look like gods to us. Perhaps somehow in our history, the DNA was disconnected or scrambled. Can this extra DNA be reconnected and activated? My spirit guides and teachers say YES.
Here’s the amazing part: the DNA and the holographic realities themselves are changeable. When you change the records, the holographic reality must change to align with the records. If you change the holographic images, you will change the records. It works either way. So you can rewrite the script of your life and overlay in unto the old familiar script. In time the old script dissolves and the new one takes over.
The gift of the Order of Melchizedek is the keys, codes and process for changing both the DNA records and the hologram, to lock in a total change in reality. As the Creator God of your own records and holograms, recreate yourself as a Divine Human living in your own version of Heaven on Earth.
Once you are expressing Who You Really Are as a Divine Human, you may want to move on to the fourth step and manifest an intimate partnership with another Divine Human. Or you may want to form Sacred Union partnerships for creative expression or joyful service to the planet.
Sacred Union Relationships
When you embody your Divine Spark, you will see the nature of all relationships change. You come to a feeling of wholeness and completeness and you no longer look to other people to complete you. This has many implications.
One result is that you let go of needing, grasping, searching and clinging. There is a peaceful trust that settles in. You begin to feel that every relationship is a Sacred Union because you acknowledge the Divinity within you and all others.
You see your Divine Self in all other faces and trust that as the faces flow in an out of your life, each brings it’s own unique way of mirroring your compassion back to you. You feel a sense of detachment to the forms relationships take. There is a new sense of freedom and allowance for relationships to shift and change form.
There is a palpable awareness of the synergy when two Divine Humans come together. You can consciously direct and focus this energy in joyful service together with as many or few as
you feel drawn to.
Many Divine Humans will choose to not enter into exclusive intimate partnerships, as they will want to enjoy the freedom to commune in Sacred Union with the many rather than the few.
There will be those who want to call in a Sacred Union Intimate Partnership or elevate their current partnership to a Sacred Union relationship. If that is your choice, it serves to become very clear about what you want in a partner and in a relationship. Calling in a Sacred Union Intimate Partner is a creation process. Mental clarity in Sacred Union with heart-felt gratitude will attract your heart’s desire.
Make an inventory of all your past relationships. Write down the qualities of the partner and relationship that you liked and felt nourished by. Knowing what you do want is often made clear in the light of experiencing what you don’t want. So write down what you didn’t like and turn it around to find out what you would have preferred instead. Consider all aspects and how you want to connect mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually. How will it feel when you meet, when you are together, when you play and when you have life challenges to face?
Once you gain clarity, launch your creation by feeling that it has already happened. Feel that you are together now. Feel the joy and gratitude that your manifestation as taken form.
A warning here: if you call for a partner before completing the first three steps of the Sacred Union Program, you might get a partner. But again, it will be one that will reflect to you aspects of yourself that you still need to heal. It will eventually trigger those denied aspects of yourself and create little dramas so that you can heal.
When you truly integrate your Divinity in your body, you will feel more YOU than ever before. You will know who you are and express that freely. The next step in Sacred Union is going beyond the boundaries of YOU and into the boundlessness beyond form. If you choose an intimate relationship, be ready to merge totally with your partner and then together you will expand outward in all directions into the formlessness of All That Is.
As for me, I have moved through these first four steps and found that they work. My life now is a work of art. I’ve crafted a reality that truly is my version of Heaven on Earth. I’ve found Sacred Union within myself, in intimate partnership as well as creative partnerships. Life still presents me with people and situations that are hard to swallow at times. Yet I find a deep love of self that helps me move through uncomfortable feelings and situations with more grace and ease.
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